Understanding. This is something that many people fail to, well, understand. If only everyone mastered this skill to the fullest….how great will the world be. But of course, humans can never understand everything. Not everything, but some things like feelings…feelings like friendship, kinship, love and hate. How does it feel if you are stuck in a situation in which the other party misunderstood all your motives? What if all the misunderstandings kept on snowballing into an avalanche? Then slowly, the misunderstanding mutates into delusion.
Right. What the hell is delusion you ask me? To make it simple, delusion is simply the thought of non-existent things existing. An example would be living above your means, obsession and religion (well I’m not going to elaborate on the third). You THINK you have the money to spend your days like a king, you THINK that someone really loves you….you think and you think and you think. But, unfortunately, in reality….that isn’t happening….because THINKING only happens in your dreams, your fantasies….something the brain fabricates to hide the harsh reality from traumatizing the body…or the psychological state.
If people remove delusion and corrects the misunderstanding into mutual understanding of each other. Then everyone will benefit! There is one friend of mine whose time is so tight and his social schedules are so packed, he found it extremely hard to keep in contact with each of his friend. Unfortunately, due to this….misunderstanding stepped in. What happened? A few of his friends began accusing him of not spending enough time with them….once again, not understanding the full situation that my friend is in.
Misunderstandings and delusion is everywhere, including in love. When you like someone, that’s a crush. But if the other party does not have feelings and yet you’re still smitten with him/her for an extremely long period, that turns into obsession.
Obsession, the worst product that could come out from delusion and love mixing up together. Speaking of which, many fans of superstars are suffering from obsession. To make it simple, they’ll think that the star would fall in love with them or marry them…which in fact, would not happen or have 1 in a million quadrillion chance of happening. They end up stalking, crying over them and talking about them every other day. People really need to snap out of their delusion as not only they are causing distress to certain people around them, they might also risk straining relationships.
Therefore, if any of your friends treat you extremely well, helps you out when you are in trouble or just be your personal listening ear. Appreciate and thank them, but don’t take advantage or try to think too much. You may not know if you will end up losing him/her as a result of misunderstandings.
With all this. Tata.
I am finishing is shit very soon!